Assalamu Alaikum Wa Rahmatullah Wa Barakatuh
Avoiding talking to a person to the exclusion of a third:
Ibn `Umar may Allaah be pleased with him and his father, reported that the Messenger of Allaah sallallaahu `alayhi wa sallam ( may Allaah exalt his mention ) said: “When there are three people present, two of them should not hold a secret counsel to the exclusion of the third, until more come to the gathering, lest this saddens him (i.e. the third person).” [Al-Bukhaari & Muslim]
This is because the third person may think that he is the subject of discussion, or that he is being conspired against.
Two people speaking privately in a group containing more than three people is not included in this prohibition, as the prohibiting factor no longer applies.
However, if there are ten people in the gathering and nine of them speak secretly to the exclusion of the tenth, then the prohibition applies.
Likewise, if two people speak a different language than the third in a group of three, then the prohibition also applies.
Ibn `Umar may Allaah be pleased with him and his father, reported that the Messenger of Allaah sallallaahu `alayhi wa sallam ( may Allaah exalt his mention ) said: “When there are three people present, two of them should not hold a secret counsel to the exclusion of the third, until more come to the gathering, lest this saddens him (i.e. the third person).” [Al-Bukhaari & Muslim]
This is because the third person may think that he is the subject of discussion, or that he is being conspired against.
Two people speaking privately in a group containing more than three people is not included in this prohibition, as the prohibiting factor no longer applies.
However, if there are ten people in the gathering and nine of them speak secretly to the exclusion of the tenth, then the prohibition applies.
Likewise, if two people speak a different language than the third in a group of three, then the prohibition also applies.
Evitar hablar a una persona excluyendo a un tercero:
Ibn 'Umar, Allah esté complacido con él y su padre, informó que el Mensajero de Allah (salla allahu allahi wa salam) dijo: "Cuando haya tres personas presentes dos de ellos no deberían de hablar en secreto para excluir al otro, hasta que lleguen más a la reunión, esto le entristecería (a la tercera persona)" (Al-Bukhaari y Muslim)
Esto es porque la tercera persona podría pensar que es el tema de discusión o que conspiran contra él.
Dos personas hablando en privado en un grupo que contiene más de tres personas no está incluido en esta prohibición, ya que el factor prohibido no se aplica.
Sin embargo, si hay diez personas en la reunión y nueve de ellos hablan en secreto excluyendo al décimo, entonces la prohibición se aplica.
Del mismo modo, si dos personas hablan un idioma diferente que el tercero en un grupo de tres, entonces la prohibición también se aplica.
A'ishah Aish
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